[mail] Fix how notmuch and mbsync work

mail/.notmuch-config

@@ -4,17 +4,20 @@ path=Mail
 [user]
 name=Colin Powell
 primary_email=colin@unbl.ink
-other_email=colin@unbl.ink;colin@castine.town;colin@unbl.ink
+other_email=colin.powell@gmail.com;colin@castine.town;secstate@sdf.org
 
 [new]
 tags=new
 ignore=.mbsyncstate;.isncuidmap.db;.uidvalidity
 
+[index]
+header.List-Id=list
+
 [search]
-exclude_tags=spam;muted
+exclude_tags=spam;muted;deleted;trash
 
 [maildir]
 synchronize_flags=true
 
 [crypto]
-gpg_path=/usr/local/bin/gpg
+gpg_path=/usr/bin/gpg